this song, Eyesdown, by british trip-hop artist Bonobo, is pretty nifty.  Bonobo combines a romantic, lounge-esque mood with just the right amount of computerized efects to produce, well, a song with an awesome feel and even better effects.  add to that the breathy, female vocals, and you have a song fitting for your first (consensual) time, no matter who you are.

i’d highly suggest this album, Black Sands, but Bonobo has a lot of work out there, most of it good.  however, i will admit his first few albums aren’t nearly as evolved as this, and when compared, tend to sound overly static.  still, it’s pleasant enough music, and good in all settings.

Bonobo-Eyesdown-Black Sands